Episode Summary
Jane recounts her upbringing in the 70s, surrounded by Christianity despite her family’s embrace of various spiritual practices. She shares her journey from becoming a Christian at 13 to being part of a megachurch. Emphasising the importance of belonging. The impact of her faith on her relationships, is discussed, along with her gradual disillusionment with the church over several years.
Complex emotions and shame surrounding conformity within the church, as well as issues like abuse, exclusion, and wealth distribution, contribute to Jane’s departure from her faith. Working in the aid sector helps her confront her white privilege and saviour complex. She describes the heartbreak of realising she no longer believes in God as she once did.
Jane reflects on navigating her personal journey amidst the public unraveling of the church, including revelations of misconduct. She discusses avoiding jumping into another form of fundamentalism and shares her evolving spirituality, particularly around holidays like Easter and Christmas.
Finally, Jane offers advice to those beginning their deconstruction journey, urging them to embrace the process and explore spirituality on their own terms.
My Thoughts
Jane is so wonderful; she is a friend; a sounding board and her story is powerful. I hope you enjoy listening to her as much as I do.
More About Jane
Jane Kennedy is a Sydney-based Counsellor. Jane has lived experience of religious trauma and is committed to supporting people as they leave church and/or faith. This experience, still frequently misunderstood, can be life-altering. She brings language and framing for the complexities of religious trauma to the counselling space and works with other Australian therapists to broaden knowledge among those working with affected clients. Jane has written her story, an e-book, The Sentimental Non-Believer, on Loving & Leaving God.
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