I wam continually reminded about the power and impact true allyship has. It doesn’t mean that it doesn’t come with loss or sacrifice though. It shouldn’t but sadly it can in certain spaces. If you have loved ones who are in the LGBTQIA+ community, that doesn’t automatically make you an ally! Without action, you simply know Queer people.
It’s not complicated though. Whilst this shouldn’t be exclusive to Pride Month, it is a great time to start!
These are just the bare minimum – there is so many different ways that you can show support, and promote inclusion. I have broken it down to 4 spaces; Educate, Respect, Support and Speak.
Educate
Dive into books, articles, and documentaries about LGBTQIA+ history, struggles, and culture. Engage with content from LGBTQIA+ activists, influencers, and organisations on social media to stay informed about current issues and perspectives within the community.
These websites are excellent resources for staying informed and connected with the LGBTQIA+ community in Australia.
- ACON (AIDS Council of New South Wales)
- Website: ACON
- ACON is a health promotion organisation specialising in HIV prevention, HIV support, and the health and well-being of LGBTQIA+ people in NSW. They provide resources, support services, and information on various issues affecting the community.
- QLife
- Website: QLife
- DQLife provides nationwide anonymous, LGBTI peer support and referral for people wanting to talk about a range of issues including sexuality, identity, gender, bodies, feelings, or relationships. Their website offers resources and information for the LGBTQIA+ community.
- Minus18
- Website: Minus18
- Minus18 is Australia’s largest youth-led organisation for LGBTQIA+ youth. They offer events, resources, and education to create an Australia free from discrimination. The website provides information on various topics relevant to LGBTQIA+ youth.
Respect
Respect people’s pronouns. When meeting someone new, introduce yourself with your pronouns. For example, “Hi, I’m Sam, and I use she/her pronouns.” This sets a standard and makes others feel comfortable sharing theirs.
Politely ask for someone’s pronouns if you are unsure. You can say, “Hi, what pronouns do you use?” or “Can you remind me of your pronouns?” . This shows that you care about addressing them correctly. If you make a mistake, apologise briefly, correct yourself, and move on. For example, “She—sorry, they said…” . This shows you are making an effort without drawing unnecessary attention.
Avoid making assumptions around gender identity and sexual orientation. Use terms like “partner” or “significant other” instead of “boyfriend” or “girlfriend” when talking about relationships you are unsure of. This is inclusive of all genders and orientations.
When addressing groups or individuals, use gender-neutral terms like “everyone,” “folks,” or “team” instead of “guys” or “ladies and gentlemen.” For example, “Good morning, everyone!”
Ultimately, create a space where people feel safe to share their identity by being open and nonjudgmental. Avoid making assumptions based on appearance or behaviour. Instead, let individuals define themselves.
Support
Make a conscious effort to support LGBTQIA+ owned businesses. Use local resources like the Australian LGBTQ+ Chamber of Commerce or LGBTQIA+ community centres to find directories of LGBTQIA+ owned businesses.
Share your experiences with these businesses on social media and leave positive reviews to help them gain visibility. Choose LGBTQIA+ owned businesses for everyday purchases, gifts, and services. Support businesses during events like Mardi Gras Fair Day.
Contribute to LGBTQIA+ organisations through donations or volunteer your time. A couple of options are:
- Donations:
- Volunteering:
- Twenty10: Volunteer to support LGBTQIA+ youth with housing, mental health, and social support services.
- Switchboard Victoria: Offer your time to provide peer support and referrals for LGBTQIA+ individuals.
Speak
This is perhaps one of the most important ways that you can be an ally.
When you hear discriminatory remarks or witness unfair treatment, speak up. Whether it’s in social situations or online, calling out harmful behaviour is crucial. Use online platform’s reporting tools to flag harmful content. This helps to remove discriminatory posts and hold people accountable. Also share positive and affirming content. Like, share, and comment on content that promotes LGBTQIA+ rights and visibility. This helps to amplify supportive voices.
Support policies and legislation that protect LGBTQIA+ rights. This could involve signing petitions, contacting representatives, or participating in local advocacy efforts. Follow organisations like Equality Australia and Human Rights Law Centre to stay updated on current LGBTQIA+ issues and legislative efforts in Australia.
Participate in rallies, marches, and community events that support LGBTQIA+ rights. Look for events during Sydney Mardi Gras or Melbourne Midsumma Festival. By actively speaking up against discrimination and supporting policies that protect LGBTQIA+ rights, you help create a more inclusive and equitable society.
Every action, no matter how small, contributes to positive change.
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Happy Pride Month!