Episode Summary
Healing from religious trauma or spiritual abuse is never linear, especially when you’ve been raised in a conservative Christian community that expected you to be someone you’re not. Our guest, Tyler shares his story of leaving a high-control evangelical ministry and the emotional toll of excommunication. Together, we unpack the heartbreak and liberation that comes with stepping away from rigid systems and moving toward self-discovery. Tyler’s journey is one of courage and transformation, as he navigates faith deconstruction and embraces his queer identity.
This heartfelt and healing conversation dives into the complexities of reconciling faith and sexuality, with raw reflections on shame, identity, and acceptance, especially in communities steeped in atonement theology. Tyler opens up about spiritual abuse and authoritarian leadership, shedding light on toxic dynamics like love bombing and narcissism, and the role that community and allyship play in rebuilding a sense of self.
But this isn’t just a personal journey, t’s also a broader one. We explore how movements like Black Lives Matter and Me Too have helped foster awareness and connection. As the episode wraps, we encourage listeners to stay curious, stay connected, and remember they’re not alone. Whether you’re deconstructing your own beliefs or supporting someone who is, this conversation is a powerful invitation into resilience, authenticity, and hope that healing is possible.
Who Is Tyler?
A ever-curious and ever-evolving learner, Tyler Williamson is a queer bartender and life coach based in Birmingham, Alabama. Tyler worked in full-time evangelical Christian ministry across the US for 12 years until experiences of spiritual, emotional, and narcissistic abuse broke his heart and helped wake him up. Tyler began his deconstruction process in the midst of great grief and loss, but has been finding deep healing in de- and re-constructing his life and faith. And finally getting to date boys
You can find him and more of his story on his Instagram @wtylerwilliamson. And he would love to work with anyone as a coach who is interested in processing through deconstruction, coming out, grief, spiritual abuse, or learning how to life life more fully and authenticity.
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